A celebration of life food ceremony is not burdened by social expectations – it can be pretty much anything you want it to be. Add in unique lifestyle and personality characteristics of your loved one, along with music and refreshments, and you have an unforgettable event.

Food is a popular element of any service and can help to tell your loved ones’ story. Here are some ideas to consider:

1. Hors d’oeuvres

Hors d’oeuvre (pronounced hors duh) are small savory dishes or finger foods that are served before the main course of a meal. They can be cold or hot and are often passed around in a social setting for guests to mingle while waiting for their dinner to be served.

A variety of bite-size recipes are a sure way to delight your party guests, whether you opt for deviled eggs, smoked salmon rolls, or scrumptious bacon wrapped dates. For a snazzy presentation, serve your hors d’oeuvres on attractive platters or in cake stands or tiered trays. Garnish with edible flowers or herbs, offer cute party picks or cut or mold appetizers into fun shapes.

Keep in mind that hors d’oeuvres tend to be consumed quickly so planning ahead for prep is key. Look for recipe options that can be made in advance or that use similar ingredients to streamline kitchen production leading up to and during the event.

2. Desserts

A celebration of life ceremony is a unique way to honor a loved one who has passed away. Instead of focusing on grief and sadness, this type of event emphasizes cherished memories and the positive qualities of the deceased.

A good celebratory atmosphere is crucial to the success of the event, and there are many ways to ensure that the guests feel welcome. Personalized elements such as photos and videos compiled into a visual tribute, music that reflects the deceased, and activities that encourage sharing are sure to touch the hearts of the audience.

Food is another great way to add a personal touch. Whether you have your event catered or ask people to bring potluck dishes, serving the departed’s favorite foods will give the event an intimate feel. Choose from American favorites like brownies and cookies, or opt for more delicate finger foods such as mini sandwiches that allow for easy mingling. You may also want to serve drinks such as coffee, tea, or infused waters to quench thirst and soothe the soul.

3. Drinks

The last big step is determining the number of guests and sending out invitations. This will help you determine the where, when, and how of your event and ensure that you have enough food and drinks to feed everyone attending.

Instead of sticking to the traditional funeral venue, many families choose a location that reflects their loved one’s personality and interests. Whether it’s their favorite restaurant or an outdoor location, a gathering at home, or even a bowling alley, there are plenty of options to consider.

Alcohol is often served at a celebration of life, which can be comforting for mourners to have a glass of wine or beer to ease their sorrow and make conversations easier. Alternatively, you can opt for non-alcoholic beverages like tea and coffee or fruit juices. Finger foods are another great option to add to your memorial reception, providing a light and convenient way for guests to eat while they mingle and share stories about your loved one.

4. Finger foods

Many families will allow guests to share memories of their loved one, whether it’s funny anecdotes or heartfelt eulogies. Sharing these moments helps create closer bonds between family and friends. Providing a variety of foods and drinks helps to foster these connections, and finger foods are an easy way to do so.

For a quick and delicious finger food that offers a perfect mix of crunch, sweet and salty, try bacon-wrapped smokies. These tasty treats can be made ahead of time and are sure to please the crowd.

Other savory bites to consider include caprese skewers, puff pastry slices and stuffed peppers. To make your party finger foods even more appealing, serve them with a selection of dips like hummus, guacamole, bean pate or cheesy dips.